My sister (16) is pregnant and living with my fiancée and I for a more welcoming and better household (we are 24) but she is very problematic

My sister (16) is pregnant and living with my fiancée and I for a more welcoming and better household (we are 24) but she is very problematic

So we have had her here for several weeks and our mom and her dad agrees it’s best for her to be here with us.

So first of all, my fiancée and I have a small house and my sister doesn’t respect our privacy. Our door has been shut and locked and she has knocked on the door. Told her to go away and she did but she called my phone. This has happened multiple times.

We left last weekend and she cried and said we were abandoning her. She took our credit card and bought tons of clothes and then she said she can’t wear it soon and told me to send it back and she doesn’t care anyway...

She has a boyfriend who got her pregnant. So this guy is something! He sold her ecstasy, knocked her up, and then didn’t really react to it? They’re still together but in separate states. I am speaking to him regularly and he seems like a scumbag to me. He says he loves her and wants to be with her and she says the same thing. This guy is going to fuck her up and I have told her that she says “LOOK AT HIM!!!”. The dude said “you know how hard it is brotha, I do what I have to do” when I asked him about drugs and stuff. I personally am recently recovering from prescription pill abuse and I don’t want my sister to go down that road at some point. He says he is getting away from it.

Ok, so there’s his story. Well, she BEGGED me to let him visit her this weekend. Like she was on her knees pleading me and I said absolutely not. Well, she made a big deal about this because she was having FaceTime sex with him very loudly and with her door wide open so my fiancée walked in on her. This is our household and she should respect our choice not to allow someone like that in our house.

Ok, and finally, she is going to be a mother. I am terrified by how unfit she is. How can we help her?

Tl;dr - my sister is dating a drug dealer and she’s pregnant. She’s problematic and has a lot of issues but I want the best for her. How can I help her?

Submitted May 01, 2021 at 11:08PM by TheForgottenOne454 https://ift.tt/3tg8Ivv