My partner and I have been together a few years. We get on well and argue the regular amount. However recently it’s come out that he’s lied about a lot of things and kept a lot of secrets from me. I think it’s due to COVID that it’s been more obvious when things are off and therefore Iv found stuff out which I wouldn’t have usually noticed. He’s not come to tell me these things either he’s waited until I noticed and denied everything the first few times of asking. It’s completely broken my heart because I no longer feel like I know what type of person he is and i just feel disgusted by the situation.
The lies have been about small things right up to big things such as large debts. It makes me feel like if he’s not going to draw the line there I don’t know where he’s draw the line and now I’m paranoid.
TL;DR Istrust actually the most important thing in a relationship? I no longer trust my boyfriend due to him repeatedly lying to me and now I’m wondering can this even continue? If we carry on I’ll always now doubt him? Is there anyway to get over something like this?
Submitted May 04, 2021 at 05:29AM by plantLady199 https://ift.tt/3nL1tL2
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