How do I (24F) tell my ex (30M) that its okay to be sad about the break-up but I just can't hear about it anymore?
We're trying to still be friends (after the end of our 14 month relationship) but for him that means he can vent to me about how shitty my own boundaries make him feel. He has a total right to feel sad, but I can't walk him through our own break-up, especially when he lashes out and dismisses my comfort during. He continuously says I'm the only person he is close to and all this combined is causing me to develop a guilt and responsibility complex for his emotions and its going to completely ruin anything between us.
TL;DR Is it crazy to tell someone to stop being so sad AT me? Am I an asshole?
Submitted May 04, 2021 at 08:33AM by OverallSatsuma https://ift.tt/3vEEh3W
How do I (24F) tell my ex (30M) that its okay to be sad about the break-up but I just can't hear about it anymore?
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