Felt like I (F18) was used by my boyfriend (M19) for sex today.

We’ve been together for 11 months. I love him and we have our good moments but today ended on a sour note.

We had made plans for tonight at 9:30. He comes and picks me up and everything’s good we’re both in a good mood. We head to his house and once we’re there we have a couple good laughs about some stuff and then we lie down in his room. Immediately he’s grinding on me trying to initiate sex which is fine except it felt very very fast and almost like a hookup? I was in the mood so I went along with it though. Afterwards he cuddles me but then gets in a bad mood over his scalp being itchy and his feet being sore from work. I sympathize as I also worked that day and my feet also hurt.

He just got very grumpy after sex about these things and within 20 minutes of finishing he wanted to leave to drop me off. I ask if I could hit his vape since mine was very burnt and he always mooches off of me to use mine so it was the least he could do to make it even. But no. He said it was empty and so I said how about u fill it up in the car and he said “I will once I get home I’m leaving it here.” He then asks to use mine and I say no but he makes it a big deal so I let him. He ends up leaving his vape in his room and we drive home. The whole way he’s complaining and is in an overall grumpy mood.

Once we get to my house he kisses me goodbye half assed and as I open the door he asks to use my vape agaun. I hand it to him kinda pisses off and he says “oh great here we go you’re mad again.” I don’t say anything and once he’s done with it I just get up and leave.

I’m lost to why this happened or what I should do about it or who’s fault it is? I feel like shit just keeps happening with my boyfriend (see other post) and I don’t know how to handle this.

TL:DR; feels like my boyfriend hungout with me purely for sex and then he ended up using my vape after I asked if I could use his since mine was burnt when he already has a pattern of mooching off of mine all the time. How do I handle this?

Submitted May 06, 2021 at 12:20AM by randomassname67 https://ift.tt/3eTIZEa