my boyfriend hasn’t been responding to me for the past almost three days now.
sometimes he does this (every few months) but usually we communicate everyday. my instinct is to overreact and send him a bunch of messages until he replies, but so far i have sent the following on saturday:
good morning (11am) are you working today? (3pm) is everything okay? (11pm)
sunday i sent this:
if you want some space that’s okay, message me when you can. i hope you’re doing alright. i love you. (9am)
he has opened all of these messages because they are on snapchat.
do i send anything else? is he breaking up with me by ghosting or is he cheating?? i haven’t been able to see him in a long time because of the pandemic and these fears sit in the back of my mind. i feel like if he were breaking up he would delete all of photos we have saved on snapchat (some of them are personal) but so far he hasn’t.
the anxiety of not knowing why he stops messaging me out of the blue hurts me to the point of feeling short of breath and feeling my heart beating erratically in my chest. my stomach is also starting to hurt. this always has taken a huge toll on me and i think this is the last time i’m going to put up with it.
i don’t know what else to do but send those messages. what if he doesn’t respond? should i send something else? or just delete my snapchat account so i don’t keep obsessively looking to see if he’s done anything to our shared chat?
tl;dr my boyfriend is ignoring all of the messages i send him and i want to react in an appropriate and healthy way but the anxiety is getting to me. what do i do?
Submitted April 04, 2021 at 11:08AM by cienfuegosc https://ift.tt/2R5oNHg
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