My friend (who was also my roommate) and her boyfriend have been dating for like a year. A few months ago she had to move away. Now they're doing long distance.
Before my friend left, I considered her boyfriend a friend of mine but we weren't really all that close. We'd talk sometimes whenever he came around the apartment but that's about it. A while ago he asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him because he needed help picking out presents to send to his girlfriend. I kinda didn't want to go because I was worried that he's trying something with me but I decided to just go and hope for the best. I went with him and we had a good time and he wasn't being weird or flirty or anything like that. It really felt like a platonic hangout with a friend.
Ever since then, he's been asking me to hangout a lot. Like at least 3 times a week and he's also been texting me often. It's all been completely platonic. He constantly talks about his girlfriend whenever we're together and I'm pretty sure he's not interested in me in that way. I think he's just lonely.
My friends have all been telling me that I should stop hanging out with him. They think its weird that we're hanging out without his girlfriend around. They're saying that he's being weird because he only started hanging out with me after his girlfriend left. I don't think there is anything wrong with it but I was wondering what yall think? Is it inappropriate that we're hanging out just the two of us often?
TLDR; My friend's boyfriend has been hanging out with me a lot ever since his girlfriend moved away. My friends think I should put an end to that. I'm wondering if this situation is actually inappropriate or if its fine.
Submitted April 10, 2021 at 06:35PM by Throwjkd1212 https://ift.tt/3d9jfnq
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