Found out my (30f) husband (32m) basically was starting an affair while I’m pregnant and we have a one year old

So they travel for work together. She apparently text him saying “ I thought you were gonna kiss me” on the elevator on their last trip since then they have been heavily in appropriately texting and phone calls. He’s away for a week I saw a 1.5 hour call with her prompted me to hack his iCloud and I found the motherload where Apparently he refers to her as his girlfriend

In the messages talks about her tiny body. That’s stung because I’m currently pregnant.

I confronted him and he saying that he doesn’t think we will work out. I’m currently completely panicking. My life revolves around taking care of him and my daughter,

He’s telling me I won’t have to worry about anything financially and he’ll take care of me, but I didn’t get married to be a single mom,

I wanted a family. I keep asking him why he got me pregnant. He wanted me to get pregnant,

The messages I saw honestly made me sick. The fact that he’s friends with her on Facebook and she can see me and my daughter and she probably thinks I’m a fucking idiot because my husband‘s lusting after her.

I don’t understand why he couldn’t just found some random chick like most normal people do. Why someone at your work why someone who could ruin your life?? Your reputation. Your business. Your job. Your family. Your kids.????

The sad thing is from the text she doesn’t even really seen that into him. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s playing him and/or trying to get money somehow.

What do I do now?

I honestly don’t wanna leave him.

Tldr; basically caught husband cheating

Submitted February 04, 2021 at 07:16PM by Lonelywife754 https://ift.tt/2MSNDrH