does anyone else get internally “re-mad” at their partner?

does anyone else get internally “re-mad” at their partner?

I (18F) will randomly think about times my boyfriend (18M) made me mad weeks, months, or even over a year ago (we have been together since we were both 16) and internally get irritated with him. i’m not hanging onto it or holding a grudge or holding the incident over his head, I just randomly think about it and make myself irritated. I absolutely never bring this up with him when it happens. I just need to know if anyone else does this with their partner, and if it’s a toxic trait. if it is toxic, I am going to start working on it.

TL:DR: Does anyone else think about incidents when their partner made them mad and get mad again?

Submitted February 11, 2021 at 11:54AM by missdundermifflin https://ift.tt/2Z6SJDy