My (34) Father (72) gave my Mom (60) an STD, now my mom said I'm responsible for taking care of her.

My father had been cheating on my mother throughout their marriage. He used to beat me up when I was child because I would snitch on him and my mother doesn't do much to defend me.

Recently, he gave my mom an STD and my mom told me to go investigates to see if he is still cheating on her. I told my mother I will only do it if she doesn't bring my name up because I still want to come home and visit her once a week. Long story short, she, of course told my father I was the one who found him online messaging all his side hoes. My father and I had a huge fight and he said I was the cause of his failed marriage. My mom played the victim and pretend like she did the right thing by snitching on me.

Since then, I had stopped all contact with my parents. I did a lot of digging and I noticed that my family was very toxic including my sister so I did not want to associate with any of them. One day my sister called me and told me my mom was in the hospital so I came home and took care of her while she was sick. Basically she was heartbroken. All these years, even though my father was cheating on her, she was in denial until she caught the STD.

Now I feel like my whole family is against me, I do not have a good relationship with anyone. My sister and my mom guilt trip me because I won't move back home to take care of my mom.

TLDR: Dad gave mom an STD, mom is acting like it's the end of the world and is guilt tripping me for not doing enough for her while she is sick.

Submitted September 02, 2020 at 09:38PM by kimnvy https://ift.tt/2R2KG6V