I (23m) found out that both my parents (both late 50s) are cheating on each other. What should i do?

I (23m) found out that both my parents (both late 50s) are cheating on each other. Since the pandemic i’ve been living with them and i noticed that both have affairs. It’s a weird situation because i feel i shouldn’t be so upset about it, since im not a kid anymore, but every time i catch them doing shady stuff it makes me sick to my stomach. They definitely don’t know i know and i have proof the cheating has been going on for years. How should I approach the situation?

Should i confront them and unveil the whole thing or should i be quiet and go on with my life and pretend it doesn’t exist? (I will eventually move back to “my place” in an other city for my last year of university and i’m sure this won’t affect my mental health as much once i’m away)

I don’t know... i’ve been in situations where the truth coming out has made things worst for everybody. That’s why i’m hesitant to do something.

What should i do?

Note 1: the family it’s pretty close (every chance we have, we stay at my grandma’s together with my uncles, aunts and cousins) and the truth would destroy everything.

Note 2: my parents care about me (at this point i’m not even sure about it, since they’ve been doing all this stuff behind my back), they call me every day during the times i’m away and they complain when I don’t answer my phone.

Note 3: they pay my rent. right now I can’t get a job and be fully indipendent until i graduate. For everyone thinking this is a major reason to do one thing over the other, i can guarantee it isn’t. Even if things went south they would still pay my rent because they both want me to graduate from college more than anything (if it wasn’t so important for them i would’ve quit after the first year).

Note 4: it their 25 years of marriage, i’ve never seen them happy together, no kissing, they’re polar opposites and they argue a lot.

TL;DR: my parents are cheating on each other behind their backs and I don’t know what to do.

Submitted July 04, 2020 at 11:09AM by brickpop https://ift.tt/2NVFUGD