Title pretty much explains it. For context they've been dating for about two years, and I've known for one year. They've gone on multiple vacations together, and she seems to make him happy. She's the first person he's dated since going through a recent divorce (about 3 years ago). I'm creeped out because his gf and i are so close in age (I've casually dated someone who is 2 years OLDER than her before!) and because of the power dynamics of their age difference. She is also from another country and english is not her first language, so i'm creeped out by the power dynamics there as well?
I feel like i'm being forced to view my dad in a different light, his actions creep me out so much. But they're both grown adults and seem to treat each other well? So maybe i shouldn't worry about problems that aren't there? I don't know how to get over these feelings, or if i should tell him. I know it's selfish but i'm hoping this is just a phase and he moves on and meets someone closer to his age. Has anyone been in this situation before? I would take any advice. Ideally I would like my dad to know I want him to be happy and I want to get over it but I just don't know how. EEK!
TL;DR my dad is dating someone younger and i'm super creeped out and don't know how to be supportive or get over it
Submitted April 23, 2020 at 04:54PM by ManicTarantula7 https://ift.tt/2x3bSf9
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