I'll try to keep this brief, while including pertinent details.
Started dating in Fall 2015. Come the turn of the year, we were "couple" status. February of that year I had a gut feeling, snooped (I know, don't scold me for it, I already have done it to myself enough), and saw that he'd asked his ex for nudes. I confronted him about it, then I decided I was going to break up with him anyway, and emotionally cheated on him with someone else.
Then... things got so much better. We both 'fessed up to each other, and things intensified and got serious and honestly got very good. But honestly, in the back of my mind, she is always there. I'm always comparing myself to her. They continued to talk intermittently (supposedly like once every month or two) for the next several years.
Then he had to move to a new city for work last year. The city where she lives. And now they talk lord knows how much- I'm guessing _honestly_ probably 2x-3x/week on the phone, and their in-person hangouts have increased from once every two months to like once every two weeks, which I don't even know for sure is accurate since he stopped telling me when they hang out. The long distance is hard enough as it is. He said he stopped telling me because I'm always mad about it... which is true. I am. Because every time I think of her, I think of the way he wanted to see her naked body. And now that they're hanging out that much all I can think is that he would rather be with her. Oh, and today? Spent the whole day with her, had her over for dinner, and then they talked until about 11pm, just enjoying each other's company.
Am I really the crazy one here? I'm sure it's super hard to evaluate by a wall of text from an internet stranger, but I'm about to move to that city and I need some insights before I do so. No need to mince words.
TLDR: Am I overreacting, or is he spending way too much time with the woman he cheated on me with?
Submitted April 24, 2020 at 08:04PM by girlbookthrowaway https://ift.tt/2SaexLA
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