So, as a little bit of context. My husband (35/m) and I (35/f) have two kids under three. He works the weekend and I work part-time during the week. When he works, he's gone pretty much full time. He wakes up around one p.m...leaves for work at two and gets home around three am. We're constantly arguing over his sleeping. He feels he needs and should get to sleep as late as he wants undisturbed..every day. Meanwhile, I get up with the kids seven days a week. When he wakes up, he texts me asking for coffee. He is a total jerk for a few minutes if he gets woken up.
Last night, my daughter was up hours late. Throwing a tantrum because she didn't want to go to sleep. So, this morning...they slept in. I go in, gather his laundry to wash and take the dog outside. As I'm coming in, I get a text saying. "Why the hell are the kids still in bed? Why are they waking me up and where the hell are you"
I go into the bedroom and say, "really?" He then proceeds to tell me that I need to do something and take care of the kids. I told him that I do plenty and he says "it sure as hell don't seem like it". I told him to go to hell and slammed the door.
I have some physical disabilities and get really down when I have days that I'm in pain and can't keep up with everything. Needless to say, now, I feel like the worst mother and wife in the world. I get that he worked all night and had only been sleeping four or five hours but damn! I'm doing the best I can.
As an update...He finally woke up and went to work and he's mad at me for telling him to go to hell. I shouldn't have said it but...
Tl/Dr: My husband treated me like crap because our kids woke him up.
Submitted January 05, 2020 at 03:21PM by issa_throw_away2 https://ift.tt/36prR3O
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