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backstory: My girlfriend(23f) and i (23m) dated for 2 years. It was a ldr and we couldnt be together that much, she was a great girl attractive, funny and i enjoyed time with her. But after some time i started to feel something was odd, she didnt spoil me nor she worked on the relationship to make me happy i felt almost 90% of the time it was me doing the kind , romantic stuff to her. And the main problem was she always kept me off of her social media , family and her friends. If someone asks her on a date she wouldnt tell them that she has a bf she just told them that she had a lot of work, and they kept asking her, the social media thing bothered me and even i was surprised i dont post pictures nor stories but when i was with her i took her somewhere really nice and took a cute picture of her told her that i might post it as a story since i dont post a lot, she got mad and flipped out so i didnt post it, same day she took a picture of the food i was in it by accident she asked me whether i can move aside so i wouldnt be in the pic, my feelings was hurt tbh and she is really active on social media and not once i am in the pictures. Even tho she posted pictures with our mutual guy friends.
and the main problem was the no sex before marriage nor any sexual act. i couldnt cope with that after 2 years and asked her for compromise and she said no, so she broke up with me, and after a week or we had a friend group chat we were just chatting, she texted me on private that she doesnt want to talk with me anymore,it broke me literally because i was the only guy with her in anything , she knows well that i was her only best friend on her hard times and i sacrificed a lot for her.
current situation: I am doing really well financialy, successful in my company and happy in life, we met by an accident i guess couple of our mutual friends told her that i am doing good. We started texting i didnt think much of it, until she said that she is change and we'll do much more in the relationship since that last time and that the sex thing is no issue after sometime she is willing to do it. I dont know if i am overthinking or that i am sick, but i keep asking myself where was she when i needed her the most, after the break up i went to depression, i was mad broke and even financially was mad broke to just make her happy. And now that i am doing well in life she just wants to come back? i keep telling myself ''if you werent there at the hard part, dont be there at the fun part'' why she wasnt willing to compromise back then? because i didnt have anything? these questions keeps hunting me and dont know what to do with it. Am i wrong ? can someone help me? thanks.
TL;DR! my gf(23f) wants me (23m) after 2 years of break up.
Submitted November 21, 2019 at 12:52PM by f1rsttlove https://ift.tt/33bSDdB
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