I (f21) and my bf(M24) have been together for a few years. We go to the gym regularly together which used to be nice. ( Before I started getting into building a bit of muscle) I by no means am a body builder or anything of the sort. Just like eating and want a bigger arse.
Long story short, over the last year I've noticed I'm quite strong and I can move up weights a bit easier than he can. He lifts like 5x more than me on everything anyway. Over the last while I've noticed that he puts his foot down when I try to move up in weight on certain excercises.
Which kinda sucks because I feel my sexiest and most confident when I push myself and these exercises are the main ones that make me feel good.
He says that its weird that I can lift weight that other men lift..and he doesn't want his gf to be as strong as a man..
Like I get that I guess but like it's not like I'm lifting much... Maybe like 15kg on dumbbell rows? And like 70 kg or so on squats? Is that gross man weight?
I don't know but his comments are making me unbelievably insecure and I'm not feeling good about myself anymore after a workout, when I used to..
I don't really know what to do.. should I cool it on the weight training..
Td:lr being a strong woman turns off boyfriend..
Thanks for the replies, sorry post got removed.. but I fixed the problem
Submitted May 26, 2019 at 07:59AM by nutinmybuttagain http://bit.ly/2Woejnj
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