My husband (M40 said he "carried me" to where I(F36) am. Like hes done everything and accomplished everything. Not sure how to feel ... ?

My husband recently asked for a divorce, I understand why. We're on different wave lengths. Hes smart, I am not. Hes motivated easily, I am not. He wants more and more, I do not.

My husband recently said that he "carried me" to where we are, I'm not sure at what length he meant, but it feels like he just disqualified my entire life, anything I've ever worked for, everything I've done or given. I don't get it. ?
I make a lot less than him, I still work 32-40 hours (Those are "full time" hours in the industry I'm in, 40 hours are only offered to managers), I have had manager work, I have worked 60+ hours, I have worked hard, hardly worked - offered extra income to what we have or what we needed. But he has NEVER respected what I do, hes never given it thought to believe what I do wears me out, stresses me out or tears me down. I call that work!

Knowing hes always felt that my work is ridiculous makes his statement that much more to the point. Makes me realize what he thinks so much more. I'm that much more insulted that I was previously! How do I respond? I hurt and annoyed.
I want to show him up and crawl into a hole at the same time.

tdlr; I'm not sure how to respond, I feel embarrassed, sad and upset that he thinks this of me. Husband thinks my career is a joke, and just told me that he thinks he "carried me" to 'where we are today'. How am I suppose to respond to that?

Submitted May 25, 2019 at 10:17PM by ex-is-ten-tial http://bit.ly/2WsMSZx