I'm 26, F and my husband is 28. We both work full time, he works over full time hours driving for Lyft. We recently moved in with roommates and he's having a tough time adjusting to our new town and living situation.
I can't sleep when my husband isn't home. I feel super anxious and angry, then can't sleep all night long, and if I do sleep it's just an hour or two at a time. Last weekend I completely lost it because he was out drinking all night with his friends both Friday and Saturday night (Friday he didn't come home at all, stayed at a friends house because he got so drunk, Saturday he came home at 4am, technically Sunday, absolutely wreaking of booze). I completely erupted and told him how done I was with him not coming home or telling me he'd be home late. He felt horrible and apologized to me, and I thought he understood how much it effects me.
Fast forward to last night. Its 12:30am and he's still not home. I text him asking when he'll be home. He tells me he's staying at his friend's apartment again so he can actually sleep because he can't get a good night's sleep at our new place. I completely freak out. I tell him to come home because I can't sleep, that we just talked about this etc. He just tells me he needs to sleep and that he's staying there, and ignores all my calls and messages. Of course I can't sleep all night because of how pissed I am, it felt like my blood was boiling under my skin.
Am I being totally ridiculous or am I in the right for feeling this way? I tried calling him this morning and he didn't answer or respond to me. Its 11am. I know he knows I'm pissed.
TL;DR: I get irrationally angry and anxious when my husband doesn't come home at night and I can't sleep. He spent the night at a friend's last night, because he has a hard time sleeping in our new place shared with roommates, and I'm extremely angry.
Submitted November 18, 2018 at 08:12AM by lightup-squid https://ift.tt/2zew8bO
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