my boyfriend makes $20/hr more than me (31f) and wants me to split the bills 50/50.

TL;DR : older bf makes more money than me but expects me to pay 50/50 on bills and do almost all house chores. Is this normal?

my boyfriend (49m) makes $20/hour more than me (31f), but wants me to split the bills 50/50 and do 90% of house chores.

What does your financial arrangement with your parnter look like? Why do I feel like this is unequal? If I bring it up, he gets defensive and irritated, saying "why should I be punished for making more money" or "why is it always about money with you". I know that's a red flag.

Not to mention the no sex in 4+ weeks. 😅

We've been together for 5 years. We've lived together 4.5 of those years. What do I do..

Submitted February 05, 2023 at 10:15PM by okiedokiebby https://ift.tt/0CsyG2p