My (26M) girlfriend (25F) is hiding her social media stories from me

So I’ve been with her for 1.5 years.

I thought I was overthinking it but recently found proof.

I thought it was odd her stories seemed to randomly …stop appearing. She used to post to her stories regularly on Snapchat first. Then those stopped - I haven’t seen a Snapchat story from her in a year.

Then it was Facebook, I started replying to them and within a month or so it’s as if it’s never updated.

Instagram is the most recent and about a month ago they stopped. She had been posting most every day or two. I have notifications turned on for when she posts or uploads a story.

She had gotten busier lately and nothing outside of that changed in our relationship so I didn’t think much of it.

Currently she is on a family trip to another country and in my experience it’s when she would probably post a lot to her stories.

Two nights ago I notice she’s on Facebook a lot within a few hours and for some reason I get the idea to see if shes hiding stories. My only issue is, I had to find a mutual friend to go look and see…

My first ex and I are decent friends and she was middle school friends with my gf, and she has helped me in the past so I ask her to check. She says there’s a story with 4 selfies from vacation, on both instagram and Facebook. She sends me screenshots too so I know it’s true. I ask my best friend to check but there is no story he can see. Chances are my gf knows he could see and tell me so he is blocked from seeing them too.

Well, my ex convinced me to wait until I have more evidence to say anything.

Tonight it happened again. Story on both platforms. I ask my best friend and he still can’t see it.

Even just on the small chance it’s a tech error I ask another mutual friend if they’re willing to check and he says he doesn’t see a Facebook story but there is one on instagram.

How do I bring this up? I don’t want to throw anyone under the bus when explaining how I know, but I also don’t think I should be hidden from seeing social media stories of my SO.

I really wanted to bring it up tonight but was told not to because she’s on vacation. She won’t be home for another 5 days though, and I am not sure how to tackle this.

TL;DR gf is hiding stories and I’m not sure how to confront it

Submitted March 03, 2022 at 10:34PM by bluebirdmg https://ift.tt/NltgSAd