[UPDATE] After a huge fight, my (31f) boyfriend (29m) of five years has informed me that he wants to move back to our home state, New York, because he has a better job opportunity there
So after everything with him moving out and being here alone for the last month, I decided against continuing our relationship. I felt so abandoned and just sad everyday. I would come home every night to an empty house, wake up every morning alone and I just couldn’t keep going. I’m taking care of our pets and seeing his belongings that he left behind daily. I would cry daily. I felt myself letting go a little bit more everyday until I gained enough courage to call him and let him go. He said he would come back and that going up there was a huge mistake. I told him he could not return because he made his choice. He couldn’t just walk out and come back as he pleases.
I firmly believe he would just resent me and feel like I forced him back if he did return. I never wanted a long distance relationship. I don’t know if I made the right decision but it doesn’t erase the years I tried my hardest to make us work. This was my breaking point.
tl;dr - After him moving out and being alone for a month, I ended the relationship because he chose his own path and I needed to choose mine.
Submitted April 01, 2021 at 06:49PM by CupcakeTorment https://ift.tt/3fFTM77
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