Found out about a month ago that my boyfriend cheated on me from the very beginning of our relationship. I found this out after finding out he was talking to another woman and pressed for the truth. There are about 5 other women that he spoke with during our relationship. He said it never got physical and was just texting because he likes the attention and that it usually dies out and nothing comes from it. He just enjoys flirting with women is what he claims. I’m not sure if I believe that but to me, cheating is cheating.
He wants to stay with me and work things out. However, I have one foot out the door but I also don’t want my daughter to not be with her dad(I’m not from his country and would therefore move back home with our daughter if we were to break up). I told him he needs therapy because there’s nothing I can do to stop him from going to other women. Mentally, I’ve been a wreck ever since and can’t stop replaying it all in my head. Everything feels like a lie and I keep wanting to check his phone now. I’ve never been the type of person to feel so insecure and want to snoop all the time and I hate this.
Is there any way to actually rebuild a relationship after so much lying? Or do I just pack up and go back home?
TL;DR boyfriend has flirted with women consistently throughout our relationship. Not sure where to go from here.
Submitted April 08, 2021 at 01:24PM by 5mthmama https://ift.tt/39VgN1S
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