Some background:
My biological dad abandoned me (and me specifically not my other three sisters) when I was 8. My dad has always been a very erratic man. He is an alcoholic and uses drugs, and has a history of cheating and abuse. When i would go over to his house id see all of this, I was scared of him.
But suddenly he is back. He kept in contact with my older brother over the years, who goes over there and does Drugs and drinks with him. But he’s running an illegal casino ( literal slot machines no joke) and his wife is selling drugs so he’s just a great guy ya know.
Today he randomly tried to get in contact with me and my mom is urging me to talk to him but I really don’t want to. I don’t Want to see him. He didn’t care about me for almost 10 years of my life so why do I have to care. It’s makes me so mad.
I am very bad at holding grudges and I Seem to be the only person who is doing so. Everyone else in my family loves him, even though he abandoned me. So maybe it’s me.
And he also still lives with my younger sisters, so if I contact him I could see them I guess, My mom says I should feel guilty for not wanting to see them.
I really would like some general advice on this and how I should feel/do.
tl;dr: my father is back and I don’t know have to feel or what to do. Looking for some guidance
Submitted April 03, 2021 at 11:08PM by letsgetintoitkenby https://ift.tt/3cLdHQ6
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