My boyfriend (m 23) refuses to go to my parents house, but expects me (f21) to go over his parents house ?

We have been together about 3.5 years and live together. At first he was on good terms with my family. Since we have moved in together, he hasn’t seen them or gone over in over 2 years even though I ask him to all the time. He knows it’s important to me and it’s embarrassing to me when I have to go over alone while my sisters have their boyfriends over and they are asking where mine is. He just stays at home and does nothing. However he expects me to go to his parents house. I do go over when he asks me to because I have no issue with his family and I know it makes him happy. But I am starting to get resentful he can’t return the favor for me.

So today, Easter, he wanted me to go over his parents and I refused. Because I’m tired of doing this for him when he can’t do the same for me. I’m going over my family’s house and he can go to his. But he is mad at me now and pouting. He isn’t even going to go to his parents by himself, probably will blame it on me. Is there a way to fix this? I don’t feel like I did anything wrong but maybe I have somehow.

My parents have never done anything to him. I get him feeling uncomfortable being there it’s just because he’s never around though. If he came around a few times he may feel less awkward. That’s how it was with me anyway. I put myself in an uncomfortable situation for him but he doesn’t want to do the same for me.

TL:DR selfish boyfriend won’t go to my parents house but expects me to go to his, is there a way to fix?

Submitted April 04, 2021 at 11:22AM by Cutepuppylover89 https://ift.tt/3dAEg9I