TL;DR: told fiancé I wish for him not to get strippers at his bachelor party , he said it was out of his control and he just wouldn’t participated it happens . I then told him we wouldn’t be getting married if there were other women/strippers present.
To keep this as short as possible, I (25F) am engaged to my (27m) fiancé .We’ve been engaged for about a year now and the thoughts of a bachelor party popped into his head. I told him I don’t care what he does as long as there is no women/strippers/prostitutes showing up. He proceeded to tell me he will tell all of his guy friends but he can’t control what happens in the end. I told him if they go against his (my) wishes he needs to either call the day off and tell me or kick them out and tell me immediately . He then told me if this hypothetical situation does happen he’s not going to leave or make the women leave he just won’t participate in it. I then proceeded to tell him we will not be getting married if that’s how he chooses to handle it and I feel disrespected that he would rather go against my (the woman he is planning to spend his life with)wishes than replan his party and/or kick out strippers.
(I also opened up the idea of us doing like a joint party sort of thing but that idea hasn’t been entertained all that much by him)
Also to add on ....a bit after we got engaged one of his friends asked in front of me “ when are you going to have the bachelor party so I can get us some b*tches and strippers ” so that is were my concern came from.
Is this wrong? Part of me feels like I have every right to call it off if this is how it goes , but another part of me feels like I’m being dramatic... help :/
Submitted April 02, 2021 at 09:31PM by littleRIP4me https://ift.tt/2Pns7x3
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