I drove my (22f) bf (22m) and his closest female friend apart. I’ve made things right with my bf as best I could, but now should I reach out to her to apologize?

I drove my (22f) bf (22m) and his closest female friend apart. I’ve made things right with him as best I could, should I reach out to her too?

Basically the title. This is my first serious relationship and I got jealous and insecure about how often they talked which I expressed to my bf. He stopped talking to her as much, which I think pushed her away so now they rarely if ever talk.

It’s been several months since this went down (been dating almost 1year) and I’m no longer jealous or insecure thanks to my boyfriend’s help in building my confidence. So we are fine now and he knows I’m very sorry. But I still feel so guilty because I’ve never talked to her about what happened. Would it be a bad idea to reach out to her to explain how I messed up and apologize?

Usually if I mess up I would think of course I should try to make things right with who I’ve hurt...but they aren’t even really friends anymore because of me so I don’t know if it’s a good idea.

I feel so bad and ultimately I want to reach out because I’d like for them to rekindle their friendship.

TL;DR I was the controlling jealous gf and drove a wedge between my bf and his closest girl friend. I’ve mended things with him but wondering if I should apologize to her as well even though they aren’t really friends anymore?

Submitted February 09, 2021 at 09:22AM by PurpleHaze127 https://ift.tt/2MOGsRI