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My boyfriend (m/27) used photos of me (f/26) to talk sexually to men.

Hi everyone. I need some advice. I’m torn and I don’t know how I should be feeling or where to go from here.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He is bisexual and is open about this to me, but not open about it to his family or friends. He’s had a lot of issues with his sexuality and struggling with feelings around it.

Keeping a long story short. I found out recently, he had created a profile on Instagram, using my photos and posing as me. I’m talking “private” photos. Photos that I sent only to him and trusted him with them. He also used my more explicit photos (full nudes) and sent those to men privately over private message in order to receive full nudes from them. So a nude for nude swap, along with a whole bunch of dirty talk messages.

Getting straight to the point, he got found out and has fully admitted to doing all of this. The reason he gave was wanting to experiment more with guys but was too embarrassed to do it himself, as himself, incase he “got caught by his family or friends”.

This whole situation makes me feel physically sick. It’s been 2 weeks now since everything has come to light and I can’t get it out of my head. Posing as me.. using photos that I TRUSTED him with.. sending other men full nudes of me.. Receiving full nudes of them in return (he downloaded their nudes onto his phone and kept them for over a month).. deceiving those guys in the first place and tricking them into believing he was someone he wasn’t. I go from sympathising with him and feeling sorry, to feeling so betrayed and unable to even touch him. I am heartbroken. I do truly love this man so much. We’ve had a great relationship up to this point and I know he was thinking of proposing sometime soon. But how do I forgive this and look past this? I’m not sure I even should?

TL;DR: boyfriend of 4 years has massively broken my trust by posing as me online, using my private photos and sending my nude photos to men. I feel disgusting, disgusted and betrayed and I don’t know where to go from here.



Submitted July 03, 2020 at 03:37AM by Pixie_venom https://ift.tt/2ZzRk8d
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