I’ve been friends all my life with this person. I believe I’ve been a good friend. In fact I’ve been there every step of the way for her. Her daughters named after me, I looked after the daughter whilst she gave birth to her son. I’ve taken them on family day trips (she doesn’t drive and is split from the dad)
I was the person who held her hand and announced her brother had taken his life. I’ve financially supported I threw her baby shower I’d do anything for her.
Life is busy and we don’t see each other as much as we’d of liked. She was low and withdrawn and I’m not a parent and wanted her to have other mum friends.
I couldn’t imagine getting married with out her & she was so happy for me genuinely cheerleaded my happiness
(3 year engagement) with a year to go she pulls out with a genuinely fake reason no apology Says she won’t have time to come to dress fittings etc
I replied (this was via text ) thanks for telling me I can’t lie I’m devastated I don’t know what to say
She didn’t say sorry in the message and since then has been tagging herself with her new mummy friends (one of whom is getting married) at dress fittings and wedding memes about how excited she is etc
I’m gutted
But what do I do, I’m hurt I don’t want to have her there now anyways but do I block her or confront her about why she’s suddenly dropped me and with a blatant lie???
TL:DR best friend agreed to be my bridesmaid then a year before the wedding drops out, no apology and says she’s not coming to my wedding. Do I block or confront
Submitted January 23, 2020 at 01:20PM by blondefox89 https://ift.tt/2RK8M6j
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