We've been dating for three years. I've moved in recently to his house since we spent most of our time there anyway, and it was stupid to pay rent on my apartment too. I think we'll eventually get married, but I'm not in a hurry. Neither is he. He rushed into a marriage before and ended in a bad divorce.
Over the last couple of months, he's started to encourage me to wear shorter dresses or show more cleavage and more booty when we go out or people are coming over to the house. He's been buying me clothes that are what he wants me to wear. I know this sounds stereotypical but he has a poker night every other week. His buddies come over and they drink and play. He started saying I should wear a cocktail dress to make the night seem more like a casino. I agreed at first, but it just seems weird.
I agreed at first and now I think I'm in a hole where I can't go back. I like to dress and feel good, but this is been an escalation I think. How do I de-escalate without being a bad girlfriend?
TL;DR: BF is pressuring me to dress more revealingly than I want to and I'm uncomfortable now.
Submitted January 21, 2020 at 10:55AM by throway_gf https://ift.tt/2ui2jHA
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