I (33f) just found out today that my Husband (32m) has been miserable our whole ten year relationship. We have 2 kids and have been married around a year. Ironically, I pushed him to get mental health help and after therapy and antidepressants it turns out that he has realized that he hasn't been happy with me our whole relationship. Everything exploded over the Holidays. I'm staying somewhere else with the kids while we go to therapy. I feel absolutely stunned, shattered, lied to, betrayed. I am so incredibly hurt on so many levels. I feel like this was so cruel. I've been so in love, so determined that we could work through anything. We even worked through an affair several years ago. I'm still in love with him. I don't know at this point if he's ever been in love with me. I feel like the last 10 years have been a lie. I even told him before we got married that he'd better be sure because I am only getting married once and I'm choosing him. I just feel so lost and hurt. I'm ready to give up on love. I've had a real shitty past with relationships with shitty guys and now that I have two kids I have to worry about I just can't dedicate myself to someone else like I have this time just to get hurt again. Has anyone else gone through this?
Tl;dr husband of one year, relationship of 10yr & 2 kids, says he's been miserable whole relationship.
If you got this far, thanks for reading.
Submitted January 22, 2020 at 09:54PM by strugglebusmom https://ift.tt/30NrNsp
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