My (28/M) close friend (28/F) didn't invite me to her wedding but chose to invite the rest of our friend group, even people she's not particularly close to.

We've known each other since high school. I get along really well with her fiancé and always have. Had I ever sensed any weird energy from him, then I would understand why an invitation wasn't extended to me. But he's always been cool. It's a bit confusing as to why I wasn't invited. The wedding is in two months. From what I've heard, it's a big wedding. They're quite successful in what they do, so they're sparing no expense as far as location and all of that.

Just last week I saw her and she was telling me how she was so tired from planning but that she was excited to finally get going and take that next step.

The invitations were sent out soon after. I figured I would get mine last week like everyone else. Actually I didn't even give it thought because the idea of not being invited had never occurred to me. Only when our friends started talking about it and saying how the invitations were made really well, did I realize I didn't get one. I haven't talked to anyone about it as I feel like it's kind of an awkward topic. It could be that my invitation was lost in the mail or that they simply forgot to send it out with the other ones. I don't know.

Mostly I'm just worried that I've done something wrong. And I don't really know how I'm supposed to face them after this without feeling awkward. I don't live far from them. Five blocks. From what I heard, they hand delivered invitations to the people who live closest to them. Come to think of it I don't remember getting a save-the-date card either. One second I'm going to text someone and ask if they sent those out. Okay, they did.

So, I wasn't invited lol. For sure now.

Is this weird? It's not so much that I want to attend the wedding for the sake of it. I'm just confused as to why I'm the only one that's not invited. If I did something wrong or if there's some reason behind their decision, I would prefer that one of them tell me. But that seems unlikely now. And again they were both completely normal around me the other week.

Not sure what this is about. Is it worth asking? Or should I just take the hint and keep it moving?

tl;dr I'm pretty good friends with her fiancé as well. They talk to me about their wedding all the time. Especially her. If they were never going to invite me, what was the point of speaking to me about the wedding at all? I don't know if it's worth looking into but now I'm curious as to the reason.

Submitted July 17, 2019 at 10:44PM by friendweddinginvite https://ift.tt/2LXlcpX