My GF and I are in our mid-20s. We had been dating for exactly a year before I broke things off recently.
During our relationship she mentioned several times that she wants to get married before she's 30 and have kids a year or two after marriage. Overall we have a lot of fun experiences together and really enjoy each other's company. We've traveled together, and can have fun doing almost anything together. She has been a great and supportive GF, but in the last few months I started to realize that although we have a good relationship, I could not really see myself spending the rest of my life with her. Even though I love her and at times I saw myself marrying her, there was always this "gut feeling" preventing me from being fully emotionally committed to starting a future with her. So I ended up breaking up with her because I didn't want to waste any more of our time.
But right now I still feel unsure and lost about my decision. My biggest fear is that 5 years from now, I'll regret what I had with my GF, when that ship has long sailed. Has anyone dealt with a similar breakup scenario before? Did you ever question or regret your decision down the line?
TL;DR - Broke up with GF because I wasn't 100% on the same page about our future
Submitted July 17, 2019 at 11:13AM by breakup0719 https://ift.tt/2XWw3Ti
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