For some context: When we were living in our apartment, and for the first two months living in this house, I was unemployed. So, I was the one who did the dishes in the sink, cleaned the floors, took our the trash and what not while he was at his job. Recently, because he was getting angry about struggling with money, I got a job too. I now have considerably less time to clean the house, so it does get a bit messy.
Today, my boyfriend woke up and wouldn't speak to me. He glared at me, then went straight to the bathroom and locked the door. I waited for him to come out of his shower, but he brushed past me and went to his computer. I went in the kiss his cheek, and he said no. He then said that he is pissed off at me because our house looks bad, and he thinks he saw a roach in the kitchen. He then launched a game and told me to clean.
I understand that I've been a bit slack lately on cleaning, as my job has me on my feet a lot and I'm still not used to it. But, he doesn't raise a finger to help me. In the entire time we've been together he has washed maybe two dishes, and cleaned out the bath tub before he wants a bath. He seems to think that all of the cleaning falls on me, and gets angry and will not talk to me if the house isn't perfect. All he does on his weekends is sleep and play MMOs, essentially. I desperately need his help on cleaning, but he doesn't seem to think its his responsibility. This has already caused days of him ignoring me, and shouting matches. How do I make him understand that it's hard for me to keep up my job and keep the house perfect without his help?
Edit: I forgot to mention that the roaches are from the last tenants. I've been working on getting rid of them since we moved in.
TL;DR: Got a job, struggling to keep the house as clean as before. Boyfriend gets angry at the mess, but refuses to help. How do I get him to help me out?
Submitted June 23, 2019 at 05:46AM by atleastIthinkImsexy http://bit.ly/2L9UwSr
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