Parents (40) threw quite the show when they found I (21F) I went to a music festival for two days with my bf(22) and found out I was having sex.

So I still live with my parents because they let me while I finish school. I work my own job, pay my gas, phone, & personal items. They won’t accept rent or water/electricity bills. I do good in school, and I help with my brothers taking them to school every day.

I let my parents know in advance that I was going to a music festival and staying there with my bf for two days. My dad always pretends to forget so he had me repeat myself the day I left of where I was going. They said I better be home by the time the festival finishes, again I told them I was coming back until the next day.

So we go and are having a good time (mind you I’ve never been to a concert or things like this) when I get a ton of messages and phone calls from my parents asking if I was gonna go home and if I didn’t it will be bad. My mom started saying that I’m a girl from her house (Niña de casa, were Mexican) and that it looks bad for me to sleep with my bf, she threatened me saying that she will tell my dad about the condoms she found. Which she did tell him because that’s when he started calling me non stop. I ignored them because i wanted to have a good time and i told them so I didn’t know why they were acting like this. But then my mom texted said that my dad was on his way to my bfs house and they were gonna heat things they didn’t like. That’s when I told my bf to just let’s go (we had already paid for hotel btw so that money went to waste too) and I called my dad telling him why he had to do that if I wasn’t doing anything bad, he said I better go home or he will go their house. He also said that he would go all the two hour drive to pick me up. My mom also called me disrespectful and uneducated in a sense of household rules. So we left. And I havnt talked to them.

So my mom thought I was kidding when I said I was staying for two days and not sleeping home, she said they care about me and that’s why they acted like that. I told her that they should trust me not to do something stupid. She said That if I were to get pregnant I would be the one loosing. The thing is that me and my bf got educated on protection and we use condoms and other methods. We both have money saved up for or own personal needs. We both go school and have good grades.

I’m just at a loss right now cause I don’t know why they acted so dramatically, I don’t do anything bad I am responsible and I told them. Also, every time I go out, which 8/10 times is to study at my bfs house, and even then they text me constantly saying I should go home already. When all I’m doing is studying because i can’t study at home.

I want to know if what they did is reasonable, if I am in the wrong. I don’t know what’s normal anymore.

TL;DR My parents got really mad that I was going to sleep outside of my house with my bf for a music festival, they threatened me to go back home and almost went to his parents house.

Submitted November 04, 2018 at 05:55PM by noodleslirp https://ift.tt/2SLYP80