Is it wrong to want to seriously distance yourself [24F] with your mom [58F] because she committed credit fraud on you?

I posted here Friday, but basically my mom opened a credit card in her name using my credit without telling me. I initially forgave her but this morning the way she reacted made me regret my forgiveness. She basically tried to call me an awful daughter and that I didn’t respect her. I know that the whole reason she is saying this is because I caught her with credit fraud. We got in a big argument today, lots of yelling, and she threw stuff at me. I’m so disgusted with her, I don’t want anything to do with her at this moment. Here’s the thing, she isn’t a bad mom. But I suspect she had bipolar disorder and is a compulsive liar. She’s just not a very rational human being. I love her but I’m kind of disgusted by her behavior.

*Tl;DR Am i being dramatic because I don’t want to speak with my mom for a while after she committed credit fraud on me? *

Here’s a copy from my last post related to this:

So I’m currently living at home to save money and build my credit. I just checked my credit score and found out a card was opened in my name and has been used ($275 out of $1500) balance. Called my mom and she said she opened it. What the fuck?

So mom ends up driving up to my workplace and we go to her car to talk and it was a very frustrating conversation. Her arguments were:

1. “You were there when I was applying for credit cards for you” BLATANT LIE, no such thing happened.
2. “ I thought that it was in my name as well and I was trying to build my credit” LIE, this isn’t even a thing.
3. “I’ve done so much for you. I didn’t think it would be a big deal for me to do this” what the hell?
4. “I always made the payments on time”
5. “I said I’m sorry. What do you want me to do? Are you going to keep beating this into the ground?”
6. She then started crying “ everyone is always against me. I always catch it. You’re so mean to me”

She got mad when she found out I told my dad (they’re married). Of course I told my dad! I need some freaking guidance! This whole incident has reinforced my fear that she doesn’t respect me as an adult. I’m more eager now than ever to move out. I just had a 2nd interview for a position out of state and god I hope I get it. I’m so mad at her, it was hard for me to stay composed when I was talking to her. What should I do? I’ve canceled the card and reported it as fraud. Where do I go from here?

Edit: she is now texting me, telling me I was a bad daughter to her and mean to her. She said she’s not going to “kiss my butt”. Lol what??

Tl:DR My mom opened and used a credit card in my name without me knowing. When confronted, she was unable to really see the error in her ways. What the hell do I do now?

Submitted November 04, 2018 at 02:15PM by ImpossibleAlarm https://ift.tt/2zqI5Kv