My(30F) Maid of Honor told me recently that she couldn't attend my wedding in November due to money issues. She(31F) just posted on Facebook that she is going to New York next week.

I have a destination wedding in November and have let my friends and family know in July last year that I would appreciate them coming. I have made it clear that I understand if people cannot come, everyone has got different budgets. My best friend and maid of honor confirmed that she could come and even told me that she bought her tickets(in March this year). During my hen party last month she mentioned the fact that her boyfriend had lost his job. No mention of a trip to New York back then and she maintained that she could come but needed help with accommodation. When I called her last month to discuss a few things, she said that she had to cancel her tickets because her financial situation got worse and her boyfriend was still unemployed, so she has to support him. I was disappointed but once again, I understand that people have other priorities. I was annoyed that she let me know so late, but let it go. Long story short, today she posted a message on Facebook that she's in New-York (we live in the UK) for 10 days with her boyfriend. There was no mention of that trip before so I am very confused by this. She does not reply to my messages. How do I let her know that I am very hurt by her behaviour without sounding bitter (even though I am bitter)?

TL;DR: My Maid of Honor told me that she couldn't attend my wedding- turns out she'd rather go on vacation with her boyfriend.

Submitted November 01, 2018 at 11:18AM by Guiabanana https://ift.tt/2QckLaI