My [27F] husband [29M] used photos from my sister's [25F] pro fetish modeling to help himself out. I want to get over it.

So this was 2 years ago. We have been together for 13 years, and are generally very fair. We have a great sex life, we have fun together, etc.

My husband and I often use each other's phones, since neither of us is in the habit of charging regularly.

My sister does professional fetish modeling. I asked to borrow his phone, I open the browser, and there are the results of her name being googled open. I immediately knew, asked him about it, and he was honest.

I was obviously super upset, told him it was a big violation, that it made feel insecure, etc.

To clarify, we are swingers, I have no issue with him watching porn in general, etc. But this really crossed the line for me.

He said he didn't think of it as a big deal because it's just pictures of another woman, and he was curious. I told him that I didn't think he would appreciate me doing the same with pictures of his attractive brother.

Time went on, I've mostly let it go. But I'm still not over it.

The thing is, I want to get over it. It's been two years. How can I move past this?

TL;DR: My husband masturbated to photos from my sister's professional fetish modeling 2 years ago. I want to get over it, but don't know how.

Submitted November 02, 2018 at 01:57PM by icantotesgetoverit https://ift.tt/2Dkw5P0