When Jake (fake names) and I started dating a year ago our sex life was amazing! 3/4 times a week. And over the past couple of months we now do it 3/4 times a month. I have a pretty high libido and it’s always been an issue in my relationships. I always want it more than they do. After weeks of wondering “should I say something?” I finally did last night. I sat down and told him lately I’ve been feeling a little unsatisfied and want to be intimate more frequently, that I still love him I just feel so sexually lonely. Whenever we do have sex there’s just no foreplay, it’s just let me jam it in and he’s a minute man so it’s over just when I finally start to get wet. And there’s never a round two. It’s two pumps, spray, it’ over. (I didn’t word it like that, it was much nicer. He then asked me how often I masturbate after he leaves for work and I said 3 times a week probably, so he called me a sex addict. I got pretty defensive and told him “okay I don’t go around trying to get fucked by everyone. I’m not gross and sleazy and dick hopping every night” and he said “well if you’re wanting sex that much I think you are”
I am pretty freaking hurt. Maybe he’s right? I’ve only had a few partners but I’m always the one who wants more. It’s never them. Always me. And now I feel kinda ashamed of myself.. like I’m a freak or something. Idk.. has anyone gone through this? Should 3/4 times a month really be my norm?
TLDR: I want more sex than my bf so he called me a sex addict
Submitted November 17, 2018 at 05:07AM by iseeyou12 https://ift.tt/2A3r8WQ
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