6 months ago I got into a relationship with someone I've been very close friends with for about 2 years.
We went on holiday together and things just happened and it's been incredible. I've had a crush on her for months and something just happened.
We've since been on another holiday together, spent loads of time together going out to eat, going on walks, talking all the time for hours and hours. I stayed round her place 3-4 days a week sometimes, we talked about how nice it'd be to move in together at some point in the future but it's too early now etc.
We made so many plans of things we'd like to do, holidays, weekends away, restaurants and events we want to check out etc.
We'd text every morning, text good night etc.
Incredible sex, passionate, doing it constantly, being very touchy etc.
I was so insanely happy.
She did warn me that she has a tendency to be great at the start of relationships and then turn into a bitch (she told me this at the beginning). Another note: she's not normally very sweet or touchy but she said it's a secret she doesn't let people in on.
But now the last week has been miserable.
She seems to be very down lately - I've asked her why and she's said she just gets like this sometimes and that she hasn't got any feelings right now about anything, doesn't want to talk to anyone, do anything - she said she doesn't wanna talk to people, she just wants to work on her business that she's trying to build. She just says thats her personality but I know it to be so different.
We've had a bunch of minor arguments. The sex has stopped. The conversation has dried up.
She doesn't seem like she wants to break up, talking on the phone together we're making minor plans together like hanging out on weekends or watching a TV show together.
When we talk shes mentioning about going on holidays with her friends and not me. Not that it's an issue for her to do things with her friends but she's changing the plans that we were going to be doing to now doing them with her friends. I just feel like she doesn't care for me anymore which is hard because I still feel the same about her.
Side notes that might be very important: she switched birth control just before the mood change happened so I'm curious to know if its this. We also started a diet last week which hasn't been easy on either of us. Her work is also very stressful at the moment.
So I don't know, is this just a bad time comboing all together? Do I just suck it up and carry on until she feels better?
What do I do? I'm going crazy thinking about how great everything was and how it's falling apart.
TL;DR: Relationship started out amazing, it's suddenly become very cold during a time of stress. Is there anything I can do?
Submitted August 28, 2018 at 04:03AM by 1anfan https://ift.tt/2No8fDG
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