Well, this was an absolute roller coaster the last couple of weeks. When I had originally posted about the situation I was coming to the point where I needed to decide on how to move forward with the girl (21F) that rejected me. I decided that it was best to be open and honest about how I was feeling and try to work with her on where to go since we were friends. I reached out to her just to talk originally and she invited me to hang out. While talking we discussed what our hopes and dreams for the future were and that conversation led into the dating/relationship topic. During that she admitted that she wanted to date me but at the time I asked originally there was some things she needed to reconcile before dating so it was a “just not now” and not a soft no. However, she said that now she will be graduating and moving away it seemed like timing was all wrong and expressed that she did not want to start dating.
At this point my heart sunk and I was confused and frustrated. At home I did a lot of thinking and I just felt stupid with both of us wanting to be together and just not doing it. I thought a lot about how I felt and what I hoped for moving forward with her. I called her the next day and I wore my heart on my sleeve while talking. We discussed our concerns and ended up coming to the conclusion that we both wanted to give it a shot!!! We have now gone on a couple dates and have had a great time getting to know each other. I can’t wait to see where life takes us!
TL;DR: Months after being rejected the girl I had still had feeling for wanted to talk. She admitted to wanting to date but timing felt wrong. We discussed concerns and came to the conclusion that we would give us a shot and started dating!
Submitted April 02, 2021 at 01:00PM by impromptu_dissection https://ift.tt/31HB5Ym
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