My (23f) boyfriend (22m) keeps pressuring and guilting me into having sex before I'm ready and I don't know what to do

I need some help and advice. I've known my boyfriend for a little less than a month. Initially he asked me if I want to be friends with benefits and I said no, I want to have sex in a long term relationship. A few days later he told me he had feelings for me and asked me to be his gf.

Then he said he loves me but now he's saying that because he loves me, what am I waiting for? I explained I want to have known him for longer and both people should be ready before having sex but he said HE is ready.

He also said I am wasting his time because he's spent an hour or two with me daily and that he was under the impression we could have sex soon. I am really sad. What can I say to make him respect me? Also is it wrong of me not to want sex yet?

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tl;dr: my boyfriend keeps pressuring me for sex before I'm ready.

Submitted April 01, 2021 at 11:32PM by Lovingmumof5 https://ift.tt/39Ejcy2