We have two perfect, responsible, non moody and smart teens, a boy 14M and girl 16F. My daughter has been interested in boys since like 5th grade and my son is gay but he hasn't told his mom, he hasn't told his sister but she pretty much already knows and he knows she knows. I haven't told my wife he's gay and he won't say why he won't come out to his mom but I assume it's because my wife has a weird view on dating, she encourages it but with EXTREME caution. Now the problem isn't with my son (yet) but with my daughter, she's dating this boy who is also 16 and has been trouble, smoking weed, drinking, not coming home and Skipping school. Now this boy has appeared to straighten up a bit, been going to school, coming home on time but can we ever really be sure about the other stuff? I mean what if he's just hiding the fact that he still smokes and drinks? This is exactly what my wife is worried about so she told our daughter she can't date him and needed to end the relationship, that didn't go over well and my daughter refused. So my wife pulled the classic “my roof, my rules” my daughter responded with a plain “No.”
My wife is now saying if she continues to see this boy she can't live in this house. I'm not going to let that happen obviously but I don't know what to do, my wife even tried to block my daughter from coming in the door yesterday asking her did she break up with the boy yet. She hid the wifi routers so now no one has internet and has given our daughter a 1 week notice to dump the boy or get out. Not sure how to handle the situation and could use some thoughts and advice
TL;DR: My 16 year old daughter is dating a boy who has been trouble in the past and my wife told our daughter she has to either break up with the boy or live somewhere else. I'm obviously not going to let my daughter be put out of the house and the boy has appeared to straighten up a bit but not sure on how to handle the situation
Submitted January 20, 2020 at 12:08PM by chevy89car60 https://ift.tt/2RFc1f0
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