What a mess. Married 12 years.
Stats: Me: 5'7", 168 lbs. Haven't gained weight...have always weighed pretty much exactly this (even while dating him).
Him: 5'7", 184 lbs. Has gained about 10 lbs over the past 2 years. I couldn't care less.
I do yoga. I lift some weights. I walk. And I've also started intermittent fasting because *I* would like to drop 2 sizes by summer. But overall I'm not unhappy with my weight. I might sound chubby to a lot of people here, but I am 42 and have had 2 kids and honestly, I'm ok with who I am and how I look.
It's been a brutal year relationship-wise. Tons of external stressors and we've been fighting a lot. Anyway, 5 months ago we had a bad fight (and I had also found out my husband was texting his single, attractive secretary a lot), and I chose to leave for a week to stay with my brother. But we continued arguing through text while I was away.
The topic of sex came up and my husband said a lot of awful things to me, including that my "tits are saggy" and I'm fat and it turns him off. He also mentioned "rolls of fat" (which honestly I don't have...I mean I have a muffin top if I wear the wrong jeans, but he made me sound like the pillsbury dough boy). He also claimed I have bad hygiene and my nether regions smell bad. I don't believe this at all. Since then I even asked my gyno and she reassured me that everything is normal. Yeah. Fun times.
He admitted to only saying those things to hurt me. Well it worked. It also killed my libido. Completely. We stayed together. We sleep in the same bed. We even cuddle. But I can no longer have sex with him. He is getting really annoyed with me. We tried last week and I felt so uncomfortable that I made him stop. It's been 5 months. Is it over??
tldr: husband insulted my body now we have a dead bedroom.
Submitted January 19, 2020 at 05:39PM by Commercial-Bedroom https://ift.tt/2v78EWP
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