I (35F) called my sister (37F) a "fucking junkie" and refuse to ever have a relationship with her again

My sister (2 years older) has been a drug addict since we were like 16 and 18. I didn't say anything cause at the time it was just weed and pills, I didn't want to snitch at her and we had a really good relationship back then. But then she started to do worse and worse drugs, moved on from weed and pills to heroine and coke. When we were 20 and 22 I didn't know but she took my credit card and was draining all my credit, she also stole about 5k worth of jewelry that had very very sentimental value to me. I got a bill from the credit company and I had TERRIBLE credit score, I worked hard to not have bad credit score and had a decent car. I had to give up that car and can barely drive a beater cause even now at 35 my credit score is still pretty bad cause I'm STILL paying everything off.

When I found out what my sister did I was LIVID, I ripped into her calling her an addict and how she needs help and also how she's a stealing POS. We had a big blow up fight over this and it took us over a year to talk to each other again. When we did she was in pretty bad shape and I did feel bad for her but then she asked for 50k.......even if I had 50k to spare no way in hell would I give that to her. She got really pissed and stole my wallet and tried to take a run with it. I was able to get it back but after that I told her that I NEVER want to see her again.

I have avoided her like the plague, she still uses but its a bit better from what my mom says. Its just pills and heroine now and not coke. So you know big improvement! (joking). My mom was calling me basically asking for me to talk with my sister cause she misses me. I kinda lost it and said "I don't care if that fucking junkie misses me, I will NEVER see her again." My mom got really sad by that and said she wishes I would change my mind which I probably won't.

My brother (who has always been one of my best friends and we've always been good), said that me calling our sister a "fucking junkie" was a bit too much and that I should reconsider cause even tho she's hurt me and she still uses she wants to "reconcile".

I don't want to have her in my life again but am I being unreasonable in my thought process in all this?

TL;DR:I haven't seen my sister in years after she became an addict, I called her a junkie and my mom and brother are sad at what I called her.

Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:14PM by Junkie_sisAITA https://ift.tt/36t4rcK