I have been freelance modeling on and off as a hobby for a year but I am also in a relationship of 3.5 years. My bf (29 M) is cool about it but he would give me crap sometimes about how I “dress sexy for a photgrapher” and that since it’s freelance, I don’t usually get paid. I really don’t do it for anyone other than myself. I also never shoot nude but I’m starting to get into boudoir and implied shots. I’ve also been shot by female photographers, and half the time when it is a male photographer their gf is there to help with posing and setup. It’s all very innocent actually. I’ve even asked if he wanted to tag along but he said no.
On the other hand, my bf is a personal trainer which means he will mostly train women. Isn’t he being a hypocrite or am I overthinking the whole situation and I should just continue shooting as a hobby? His argument is that me shooting is “worse” than him training females. Thoughts?
TL;DR Concerned if freelance modeling is inappropriate for a relationship. My bf is cool about it but gives me crap about it sometimes
Submitted January 03, 2020 at 03:18PM by gracedianeee https://ift.tt/2MQO02X
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