I (25 F) want to end things with my fiancé(30 M) but he has no job/car/place to go. Been together 6 years

We have been together 6 years. He had a job when we first met, was out going, had motivation but he became unemployed 4 years ago... and shows no motivation to get another. He doesn’t want to go to college. All he does is smoke weed and play games. Never leaves the house. I do admit I have probably enabled him, but I just have a big heart. I pay for everything and can afford to do so due to my job but he has definitely taken advantage of it it seems. I love him but now I feel like I’m not in love with him anyone. I have my own house and he lives with me. Nothing is in his name. I have known I wanted to break up for a few months but I don’t know how I can do without him going crazy on me. He doesn’t have any family here, no friends, no job, no car, no place to live if I kick him out. I would feel bad if I put him out. What should I do? I was thinking of “taking a trip to visit his family” and just break up with him up there so he’ll have at least his family. Any advice is welcomed.

TL;DR: how do I break up with my fiancé that I’ve been with for 6 years?

Submitted January 18, 2020 at 03:10PM by lonelybirdx https://ift.tt/2G6kClz