I literally made an account to get some perspective here. I met a guy 8 months ago after taking a year off from dating completely on a dating app. We both discussed that rushing wasn’t really an option for either of us, my reason being I had just landed my dream job and was going to be traveling in and out of the rest of the year. His reason having a young son from a previous relationship and starting a new job as well.
Time goes by and we txt regularly, meet up usually twice a month, and all around go on fun dates. We started having sex right around the fifth time we had seen each other and it was always protected... also great.
July comes and he hits me on the forth of July just to say hi, then days later sends me this long txt stating he just wants to keep things casual.... I said “cool, I thought that’s what we had always been doing?” My birthday was the next week and he asked to take me out. We got a little wasted and ended up having unprotected sex.
This repeated a few times none of the other times had we been drinking but I had asked if he had anything or was he having unprotected sex with anyone else- both questions answered as no.
I go to the gyno with some irritating symptoms that I assumed was a yeast infection.... it was the clap. I immediately started crying thinking I had possibly contracted from an ill fated night with an ex.
Upon calling homeboy he proceeded to tell me that he had contracted it from a girl he had been seeing but had not since July. He and her had both had to go through multiple rounds of antibiotics to get it out. He apologized profusely and has since been hitting me up but some thought longer in my mind.
He never told me of his diagnosis in July. He never told me anything as it related to his sexual health.
I almost feel like someone has punched me in the stomach, this person I thought was sweet and kind turned out to not give a literal crap about my health?
Am I being dramatic or does he deserve a conversation about what his health class should have explained?
TLDR: guy I was dating gave me and sti. Does he deserve the time of day?
Submitted January 05, 2020 at 09:15PM by infected-inlb https://ift.tt/2ZWjJVM
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