My boyfriend [27/M] keeps delaying our talk to the point that I [25/F] am on the brink of ending things via text.

Hey hey.

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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and things have not been going well as of late. We had a fight on Tuesday morning (7/9) that resulted in him storming out of my place before work, so I texted him that evening to let him know that I would like to meet up and have an in-depth discussion about our relationship (as there are multiple things that are making me unhappy). Despite me preferring to meet up sooner rather than later (and vocalizing such), we agreed to Friday after work because he said he had a lot going on during the week. Friday came and he asked if we could reschedule to Sunday (today). I was not pleased but I agreed.

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Today I woke up to a text from him that said "I just woke up and I have band practice in 45 minutes, my bandmates want to go get lunch afterward, and I need to work on a project for work that is due tomorrow morning. I was really hoping to be up earlier to see you." Suffice to say, this made me pretty upset. One of the main issues that I am having with the relationship is that I feel unprioritized and that he is lazy in the relationship. I told him it was uncool and he said: "I have all evenings open this week, it's my bandmate's birthday otherwise I wouldn't go, and I am not de-prioritizing this talk." I told him that he absolutely is de-prioritizing it, he said, "No I'm not and you can think what you want, so please let me know which day this week works best for you." I concluded with, "I'm good. I deserve better than to be put on the backburner."

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I don't know where to go from here. I know it's pretty weak to end a relationship over text but I am just so frustrated with the reschedulings and him not taking this seriously. Before we agreed on a day/time to talk, I had already considered that the talk might end with a breakup because of the things that I am unhappy about, and now this is just pushing me over the edge. Any advice on what I should do? Am I justified in feeling this way?

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TL;DR: boyfriend has been delaying/rescheduling our talk numerous times and I am at the point that I want to end things over text. Am I justified?

Submitted July 15, 2019 at 01:44AM by GoBearzZz https://ift.tt/30D5cxF