My boyfriend (23) is accusing me (21) of cheating on him after I drunkenly slept in the wrong room at his house
Last night my boyfriend and I went to a local fair by his house. We drank quite a few beers and ended up walking back to his house later to sleep. All of his family were gone so we had the house to ourselves. I remember going to bed with him in his room and then before I knew it, it was morning and he was screaming at me to wake up. He said “What are you fucking doing in here” and started immediately throwing around accusations. I explained to him that I went into the wrong room after going to the bathroom out of sheer tiredness and being drunk. My phone was in his room and well as my belongings. Obviously my intention were not to switch rooms. But, he didn’t believe me. He searched the entire upstairs and looked around his sisters room. Convinced I had snuck someone into his house and cheated on him when he was two doors down. It makes zero sense.
On top of that, I have never given him a reason to be suspicious. I’ve never cheated on him, talked to other people, etc. Regardless of that, every now and then he’ll have a full blown freak out and accuse me of cheating on him. I feel a little speechless considering I did nothing but the worst was automatically assumed. I don’t know where to go from here because I had to leave for work after he woke me up and he texted me as I was out the door saying “sketchiest thing you’ve done, don’t talk to me for awhile”. This means everything will he dragged on for days while he ghosts me. Just curious, how do I move on from here? Do I try to talk to him or just let this drag on forever? Also, why does he do this?
Tdlr: My boyfriend and I fell asleep together at his empty house and during the night I woke up to go to the bathroom and drunkenly fell asleep in his sisters room instead. Now he is accusing me of cheating on him.
Edit: I want to say thank you to everyone who has taken time to reply to this. You have no idea how much you’ve all helped me. I don’t have many people who can give me unbiased advice so this sincerely has made an impact. Thank you!!!
Submitted July 14, 2019 at 12:17PM by burneraccount1900 https://ift.tt/2GbRt9a


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