Hello all,
M20 Here. Just wanted to know if anyone had any tips/success stories on fighting the urge to be in a relationship. College student here that has never been in a real LTR, and all the couples around me are just making me sad. I'm a super sentimental person and a big hopeless romantic which has caused me to want to be in a relationship. I already know this is problematic thinking because:
- I'm more in love with the idea of being in a relationship rather than the relationship itself
- I constantly fantasize about being in a relationship with people I know wouldn't date me
- I find myself lowering my standards just so finding the "right one" is easier
- It just kills my mood sometimes
Ultimately, I know I have a lot to work on (in terms of personal growth) before I get anywhere near being emotionally and mentally mature enough to handle a relationship. I've also been told by multiple people that it will happen when the time is right. However, I still find myself feeling down about being single. Any advice/experience would be super helpful. Thanks!
tl;dr: M20 seeking tips on dealing with the feeling of needing to be in a relationship
Submitted July 13, 2019 at 07:25PM by katsudon99 https://ift.tt/30AUcRs
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