My [17M] best friend says she has feelings for me and wants to be with me, but she talks to other guys and gets jealous if I talk with other girls?!

I [17M] met my beat friend Dani [21F] one year ago. At the time, she was dating someone, then they broke up like 3 months after I met her. We’ve been close since and I really do like her, it’s just hard to deal with this. So, she has been telling me how much she likes me and loves me, then I slept with her and she said that she wants to be with me. The thing is, she talks with a lot of other guys, and she gets extremelly jealous if I talk with other girls. Let me give an example for clarification.

A few days ago, we were hanging out in my group of friends. She saw some random guy, then she told me that he was cute. I really don’t know why she told me, then she said she was gonna go talk to him and she did. Then she came back and kept rubbing in my face that she had given him her number. I was a bit upset, but I can’t control her or force her into anything so I just acted cool and normal. Then she kept trying to “point out” “cute guys” to me and she would just keep doing that. Then the next day we were out in public and I met a new female friend.

The girl was flirty with me, but I just talked with her normal and she asked for my social media. Dani came up to me and started to act all nice with me and got super huggy and touchy with me while I was trying to talk with my new friend. After we left, she got pissed at me. She said what was my fcking problem and she said she couldn’t believe and went as far as asking me if I really even cared about her.

Then she went on my phone and started to go through my messages with girls and she asked me why I had so many friends who were girls. What the fck? I got kind of mad at her and I didn’t text her for 2 days and she started to spam my phone until I answered. I talked with her again and she started acting super nice and she kept telling me she loved me and wanted me to just give her a chance but all she does is mess with my feelings. What am I supposed to do? I really do like her, but I can’t be with her if all she’s going to do is play with my feelings.

TL;DR My close friend says she wants to be with me but flirts around with other guys. She gets mad if I even look in the direction of another girl and I am not sure what I should do

Submitted June 20, 2019 at 08:01PM by Colt38- http://bit.ly/2x41RLg